Well I have had a wild and crazy life to say the least!
Since I was 13 I have lived in 5 different states (Wisconsin,Nevada,New Jersey,Louisiana andNorth Dakota ) PLUS one U.S territory (Puerto Rico)
I know that's a lot of moving around and no its not because my parents were in the military that's just how my life turned out to be .After my parents divorced (2000)my mother wanted a new start so we moved to Las Vegas by her sister and that turned out to be a TOTAL disaster! My aunt neglected to tell my mother of her and her husbands drug addiction. Which in the 6 months we were there turned really bad..I ended up dropping out of school at 13 because I had to watch my two little cousins all the time because they were so incompetent and were so wrapped up in their drugs. my mom was working all the time and my brother was always out with his friends so of course its a GREAT choice to leave a 3yr old and a1 yrd old with a 13yr old!
Well it was right before my 14th B-day(2001) that I went back to WI but that didn't last long a few months after I turned 15 (2002)we moved to New Jersey. We were there for almost a year in that time we had quite a house full of people my mom and stepdad me and my brother,stepsister and stepbrother and my stepdads nephew was there for a few months but my stepdad had decided to move us all down to louisiana so his kids could be closer to their mom so off we went!!
(2003)I got my G.E.D in only 3 months which I'm quite proud of! We were planted there until katrina hit in 2005 then my mom,stepbrother /sister and I moved to North Dakota by my stepdads family but we were there for only 3 months til we went back down to Louisiana and I wasn't even home 2 weeks when my brother gets a call from our sister-in-law letting us know my dad was in the hospital and that he was brain dead,his parents decided a few hours later to take him off life support. So that was the first time I saw my dad in 2 years and he was in a casket! That image has/will forever haunt me!
2006- january I met axel (the man I'm still with today 5years later) I quickly turned into a drunk (not because of him but just my own way of dealing with things) then 13 months after we were together we found out I was pregnant which we were both excited about but we weren't prepared for which resulted in axel having a falling out with his brother (which his brother & wife blamed me for when I TRUELY had nothing to do with itand yes I'm still angry about this because it caused the birth of my daughter to be ruined) In the mist of all this my stepdad was dying with cancer and he died a month after my daughter was born in 2007 and the one thing I truely regret is not seeing him more when he was sick but I already had so much going on I just couldn't handle seeing him in pain like that,he was such a strong man and to watch him scream in pain was really hard for me but he at least got to see and hold my daughter once. That actually meant a lot to me!
I also had a falling out with my brothers girlfriend.
LIFE LESSON- two pregnant women shouldn't live a house together!
Then axel,my mom,bela and I were still getting settled into our house when they were predicting hurricane Gustav to be just as bad as Katrina so since I was very pregnant with my son I freaked out and we all moved back to WI that lasted for 8 months then we decided to move here to Puerto Rico because his mom has alzhiemers and she begging him to come out her so we thought it was the right things to because she was sick & lonely...but out of everything in my life I know this was my worst mistake to move here! I'll have to write a different blog on that subject LOL
But the ONLY good thing that came out of this is that have finally discovered myself and what I want to with MY life!
